I have an iPhone X. 16.2 iOS. 128g left. I’ve had problems for quite a bit where I get the black screen and tapping on the screen doesn’t wake it up. I have to tap a few times maybe or push different buttons to get to the home screen. I thought maybe since the phone was a bit older but your black screen problem sounds kind of familiar.
16.3.1 is out. I’m going to try that to see if it fixes it. What version of the iOS are you on?