Yes! Yes! Yes! I love this site!
Thank you all for you input. http://sourceforge.net/projects/rscds
looks to be what I'm looking for, and I like the idea of http://spongecell.com/
, however, as much as I might know, there's so much more I don't.
Since my current website is a template, I was not able to upload anything easily, nor place anything but html in it i.e. no forms, so this is where my extreme ignorance lies. I don't know how to place all this on the web.
All these projects talk of how to do it on my own server, but don't mention integrating it into my website on my host's server. If I was to use a calDAV project, or wait for Leopard, how do I do that. I don't want to be my own server.
Thanks for your patience!