Hopefully you cloned before attempting this experiment. Just let things run their course even if it takes the rest of the week. Otherwise you do risk data loss.
Too late for you but maybe others can learn from your experience. It's been several months at least so a quick review of when it is appropriate to use FileVault. Basically the answer is never. Or another way to put it is; Only use FileVault if securing the data is more important than the data itself.
FileVault is capable of causing far too many problems. Forget your password? Forget your data! Not only that but sometimes Filevault will forget your password for you! If you examine your home directory there is probably very little that actually needs to be protected. To subject every iTune/movie and photo to on the fly encryption and decryption is an ideal way to make the Mac experience reminiscent of running an old Windoze box.
Better bet is to use the built-in DiskUtility to create an encrypted Read/Write disk image. Keep your banking info and that novel you are writing stored there. Everything else can be kept where it belongs, which is probably right where it started.