Why can't you stand itunes? I mean give a specific reason why you hate it so that its a lot easier to suggest a program.
It's not a "Windows" program (it's made by Apple, eww ). Some PC users can't stomach using anything made by Apple. I bet he/she would have purchased an HP iPod if they were still available.
(Disclaimer: Above said in jest, as he's looking for a "PC" alternative to iTunes.)
I've used Winamp for over 8 years now, supports lots of formats like AAC Plus and OGG Vorbis, and certainly seems less bloated in comparison to iTunes, RealPlayer or Windows Media Player.
I don't know what you specifically don't like about iTunes (Admittedly, it's large, slow and most recently buggy on the PC side compared to it's Mac equivalent), but maybe Winamp will fit the bill.
If you just want to move music on and off your iPod try annapod explorer.
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